diff --git a/web/components/filters/choices.tsx b/web/components/filters/choices.tsx
new file mode 100644
index 0000000..e3ebdf1
--- /dev/null
+++ b/web/components/filters/choices.tsx
@@ -0,0 +1,11 @@
+export const RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES = {
+  Monogamous: 'mono',
+  Polyamorous: 'poly',
+  'Open Relationship': 'open',
+  Other: 'other',
+  Collaboration: 'collaboration',
+  Friendship: 'friendship',
+  Relationship: 'relationship',
+};
+
+export const REVERTED_RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES = {}
\ No newline at end of file
diff --git a/web/components/filters/relationship-filter.tsx b/web/components/filters/relationship-filter.tsx
index e28a0d2..77231f1 100644
--- a/web/components/filters/relationship-filter.tsx
+++ b/web/components/filters/relationship-filter.tsx
@@ -1,22 +1,21 @@
 import clsx from 'clsx'
-import {
-  RelationshipType,
-  convertRelationshipType,
-} from 'web/lib/util/convert-relationship-type'
+import {convertRelationshipType, RelationshipType,} from 'web/lib/util/convert-relationship-type'
 import stringOrStringArrayToText from 'web/lib/util/string-or-string-array-to-text'
-import { FilterFields } from './search'
-import { MultiCheckbox } from 'web/components/multi-checkbox'
+import {FilterFields} from './search'
+import {MultiCheckbox} from 'web/components/multi-checkbox'
+
+import {RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES} from "web/components/filters/choices";
 
 export function RelationshipFilterText(props: {
   relationship: RelationshipType[] | undefined
   highlightedClass?: string
 }) {
-  const { relationship, highlightedClass } = props
+  const {relationship, highlightedClass} = props
   const relationshipLength = (relationship ?? []).length
 
   if (!relationship || relationshipLength < 1) {
     return (
-      <span className={clsx('text-semibold', highlightedClass)}>Any style</span>
+      <span className={clsx('text-semibold', highlightedClass)}>Any connection</span>
     )
   }
 
@@ -49,20 +48,13 @@ export function RelationshipFilter(props: {
   filters: Partial<FilterFields>
   updateFilter: (newState: Partial<FilterFields>) => void
 }) {
-  const { filters, updateFilter } = props
+  const {filters, updateFilter} = props
   return (
     <MultiCheckbox
       selected={filters.pref_relation_styles ?? []}
-      choices={
-        {
-          Monogamous: 'mono',
-          Polyamorous: 'poly',
-          'Open Relationship': 'open',
-          Other: 'other',
-        } as any
-      }
+      choices={RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES as any}
       onChange={(c) => {
-        updateFilter({ pref_relation_styles: c })
+        updateFilter({pref_relation_styles: c})
       }}
     />
   )
diff --git a/web/components/optional-lover-form.tsx b/web/components/optional-lover-form.tsx
index 8e39441..f171290 100644
--- a/web/components/optional-lover-form.tsx
+++ b/web/components/optional-lover-form.tsx
@@ -28,6 +28,7 @@ import {City, CityRow, loverToCity, useCitySearch} from "web/components/search-l
 import {AddPhotosWidget} from './widgets/add-photos'
 import {RadioToggleGroup} from "web/components/widgets/radio-toggle-group";
 import {MultipleChoiceOptions} from "common/love/multiple-choice";
+import {RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES} from "web/components/filters/choices";
 
 export const OptionalLoveUserForm = (props: {
   lover: LoverRow
@@ -225,7 +226,7 @@ export const OptionalLoveUserForm = (props: {
         </Col>
 
         <Col className={clsx(colClassName)}>
-          <label className={clsx(labelClassName)}>Aged between</label>
+          <label className={clsx(labelClassName)}>Who are aged between</label>
           <Row className={'gap-2'}>
             <Col>
               <span>Min</span>
@@ -262,6 +263,17 @@ export const OptionalLoveUserForm = (props: {
           </Row>
         </Col>
 
+        <Col className={clsx(colClassName)}>
+          <label className={clsx(labelClassName)}>Connection type</label>
+          <MultiCheckbox
+            choices={RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES}
+            selected={lover['pref_relation_styles']}
+            onChange={(selected) =>
+              setLover('pref_relation_styles', selected)
+            }
+          />
+        </Col>
+
         <Col className={clsx(colClassName, 'pb-4')}>
           <label className={clsx(labelClassName)}>Socials</label>
 
@@ -522,7 +534,7 @@ export const OptionalLoveUserForm = (props: {
         {lookingRelationship && <>
             <Col className={clsx(colClassName)}>
                 <label className={clsx(labelClassName)}>
-                    You want to have kids
+                    I would like to have kids
                 </label>
                 <RadioToggleGroup
                     className={'w-44'}
@@ -533,22 +545,6 @@ export const OptionalLoveUserForm = (props: {
                     currentChoice={lover.wants_kids_strength ?? -1}
                 />
             </Col>
-
-            <Col className={clsx(colClassName)}>
-                <label className={clsx(labelClassName)}>Relationship style</label>
-                <MultiCheckbox
-                    choices={{
-                      Monogamous: 'mono',
-                      Polyamorous: 'poly',
-                      'Open Relationship': 'open',
-                      Other: 'other',
-                    }}
-                    selected={lover['pref_relation_styles']}
-                    onChange={(selected) =>
-                      setLover('pref_relation_styles', selected)
-                    }
-                />
-            </Col>
         </>}
 
         <Col className={clsx(colClassName)}>
diff --git a/web/lib/util/convert-relationship-type.ts b/web/lib/util/convert-relationship-type.ts
index be230c0..9396906 100644
--- a/web/lib/util/convert-relationship-type.ts
+++ b/web/lib/util/convert-relationship-type.ts
@@ -1,11 +1,7 @@
-export type RelationshipType = 'mono' | 'poly' | 'open' | 'other'
+import {REVERTED_RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES} from "web/components/filters/choices";
+
+export type RelationshipType = keyof typeof REVERTED_RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES
 
 export function convertRelationshipType(relationshipType: RelationshipType) {
-  if (relationshipType == 'mono') {
-    return 'monogamous'
-  }
-  if (relationshipType == 'poly') {
-    return 'polyamorous'
-  }
-  return relationshipType
+  return REVERTED_RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES[relationshipType]
 }