diff --git a/common/src/api/zod-types.ts b/common/src/api/zod-types.ts
index 0a1263d1..1d8b49b6 100644
--- a/common/src/api/zod-types.ts
+++ b/common/src/api/zod-types.ts
@@ -51,10 +51,9 @@ export const baseLoversSchema = z.object({
   pref_age_max: z.number().min(18).max(1000),
   pref_relation_styles: z.array(
     z.union([
-      z.literal('mono'),
-      z.literal('poly'),
-      z.literal('open'),
-      z.literal('other'),
+      z.literal('collaboration'),
+      z.literal('friendship'),
+      z.literal('relationship'),
     ])
   ),
   wants_kids_strength: z.number(),
diff --git a/web/components/filters/choices.tsx b/web/components/filters/choices.tsx
index e3ebdf17..fc67809a 100644
--- a/web/components/filters/choices.tsx
+++ b/web/components/filters/choices.tsx
@@ -1,11 +1,13 @@
 export const RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES = {
-  Monogamous: 'mono',
-  Polyamorous: 'poly',
-  'Open Relationship': 'open',
-  Other: 'other',
+  // Monogamous: 'mono',
+  // Polyamorous: 'poly',
+  // 'Open Relationship': 'open',
+  // Other: 'other',
   Collaboration: 'collaboration',
   Friendship: 'friendship',
   Relationship: 'relationship',
 };
 
-export const REVERTED_RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES = {}
\ No newline at end of file
+export const REVERTED_RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES = Object.fromEntries(
+  Object.entries(RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES).map(([key, value]) => [value, key])
+);
\ No newline at end of file
diff --git a/web/components/lover-about.tsx b/web/components/lover-about.tsx
index 0c3aff22..ad9ddca1 100644
--- a/web/components/lover-about.tsx
+++ b/web/components/lover-about.tsx
@@ -131,13 +131,13 @@ function RelationshipType(props: { lover: Lover }) {
   const relationshipTypes = lover.pref_relation_styles
   const seekingGenderText = stringOrStringArrayToText({
     text: relationshipTypes.map((rel) =>
-      convertRelationshipType(rel as RelationshipType)
-    ),
+      convertRelationshipType(rel as RelationshipType).toLowerCase()
+    ).sort(),
     preText: 'Seeking',
-    postText:
-      relationshipTypes.length == 1 && relationshipTypes[0] == 'mono'
-        ? 'relationship'
-        : 'relationships',
+    // postText:
+    //   relationshipTypes.length == 1 && relationshipTypes[0] == 'mono'
+    //     ? 'relationship'
+    //     : 'relationships',
     asSentence: true,
     capitalizeFirstLetterOption: false,
   })
diff --git a/web/components/optional-lover-form.tsx b/web/components/optional-lover-form.tsx
index f1712902..b10c15fd 100644
--- a/web/components/optional-lover-form.tsx
+++ b/web/components/optional-lover-form.tsx
@@ -29,6 +29,7 @@ import {AddPhotosWidget} from './widgets/add-photos'
 import {RadioToggleGroup} from "web/components/widgets/radio-toggle-group";
 import {MultipleChoiceOptions} from "common/love/multiple-choice";
 import {RELATIONSHIP_CHOICES} from "web/components/filters/choices";
+import toast from "react-hot-toast";
 
 export const OptionalLoveUserForm = (props: {
   lover: LoverRow
@@ -69,6 +70,10 @@ export const OptionalLoveUserForm = (props: {
     )
     if (error) {
       console.error(error)
+      toast.error(
+        `We ran into an issue saving your profile. Please try again or contact us if the issue persists.`
+      )
+      setIsSubmitting(false)
       return
     }
     if (!isEqual(newLinks, user.link)) {
diff --git a/web/components/user/social.tsx b/web/components/user/social.tsx
index f32c02ae..52ce2ab2 100644
--- a/web/components/user/social.tsx
+++ b/web/components/user/social.tsx
@@ -14,7 +14,6 @@ import {
   TbBrandSpotify,
   TbBrandX,
 } from 'react-icons/tb'
-import Foldy from 'web/public/manifold-logo.svg'
 
 export const PLATFORM_ICONS: {
   [key in Site]: (props: { className?: string }) => ReactNode