* feat: drop headers with underscore in their names
* feat: Caddyfile binding and tests for underscore-in-header drop
Add the `allow_underscore_in_headers` global server option, refine the
doc comment, and cover the filter end-to-end: server-level unit tests
(drop, opt-out, debug log, RFC-7230 space rejection), a fastcgi unit
test for the trimmed header name replacer, and forward_auth integration
tests for both the default-drop and opt-out paths.
* remove allow_underscore_in_headers option for now