* update quic-go to v0.42.0
* use a rate limiter to control QUIC source address verification
* Lint
* remove deprecated ListenQUIC
* remove number of requests tracking
* increase the number of handshakes before source address verification is needed
* remove references to request counters
* remove deprecated listen*
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Co-authored-by: Francis Lavoie <lavofr@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: WeidiDeng <weidi_deng@icloud.com>