UI: Replace usage of obs_scene_sceneitem_from_source

Instead of first creating the scene item and then finding it again using
a method that's generally problematic (and only works here because we
know that there is only one instance of a source), let's just remember
the scene item in AddNew after we create it, similar to the source
itself.
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