Refactor graph traversal & use for pod stop

First, refactor our existing graph traversal code to improve code
sharing. There still isn't much sharing between inward traversal
(stop, remove) and outward traversal (start) but stop and remove
are sharing most of their code, which seems a positive.

Second, add a new graph-traversal function to stop containers.
We already had start and remove; stop uses the newly-refactored
inward-traversal code which it shares with removal.

Third, rework the shared stop/removal inward-traversal code to
add locking. This allows parallel execution of stop and removal,
which should improve the performance of `podman pod rm` and
retain the performance of `podman pod stop` at about what it is
right now.

Fourth and finally, use the new graph-based stop when possible
to solve unordered stop problems with pods - specifically, the
infra container stopping before application containers, leaving
those containers without a working network.

Fixes https://issues.redhat.com/browse/RHEL-76827

Signed-off-by: Matt Heon <mheon@redhat.com>
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