vfs: fix reads returning zeros after a file changes during handle caching

When a file was reopened within the --vfs-handle-caching grace period
(default 5s) after its remote fingerprint changed - for example after a
touch or any other modtime change - _checkObject removed the stale
cache file and open recreated an empty one, but nothing sized it. The
next GetSize stat'd the empty file and set the item size to 0, so
ReadAt's _ensure clamped the request to nothing and skipped the
download, then the size check zero-extended the file and returned the
zeros. Reads through a mount returned the correct length but zeros for
the first read (128 KiB through FUSE).

This is easy to hit with git on a --vfs-cache-mode full mount: git
freshens pack files with utime, and a concurrent reader then sees
"not a GIT packfile".

Size the recreated cache file from the object before opening it, as a
normal open does.
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