lib: Handle metadata changes for send-only folders (fixes #4616, fixes #4627) (#4750)

Unignored files are marked as conflicting while scanning, which is then resolved
in the subsequent pull. Automatically reconciles needed items on send-only
folders, if they do not actually differ except for internal metadata.
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