control/tsp: add lite map update support

Updates #12542
Updates tailscale/corp#40088

Change-Id: Idb4526f1bf1f3f424d6fb3d7e34ebe89a474b57b
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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