wgengine/router/osrouter: fix data race in magicsock port update callback

As found by @cmol in #17423.

Updates #17423

Change-Id: I1492501f74ca7b57a8c5278ea6cb87a56a4086b9
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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