cmd/cloner: do not allocate slices when the source is nil

tailcfg.Node zero-value clone equality checks failed when I added a
[]*foo to the structure, as the zero value and it's clone contained a
different slice header.

Updates #9377
Updates #9408
Signed-off-by: James Tucker <james@tailscale.com>
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