client/web: clean up assets handling

A #cleanup that moves all frontend asset handling into assets.go
(formerly dev.go), and stores a single assetsHandler field back
to web.Server that manages when to serve the dev vite proxy versus
static files itself.

Signed-off-by: Sonia Appasamy <sonia@tailscale.com>
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