cmd/tailscale, ipn/ipnstate: note which nodes are exit nodes in status

Fixes #3446

Change-Id: Ib41d588e7fa434c02d134fa449f85b0e15083683
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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