ipn: add methods on Prefs to get/set exit node being advertised

This code was copied in a few places (Windows, Android), so unify it
and add tests.

Change-Id: Id0510c0f5974761365a2045279d1fb498feca11e
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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