ipn/ipnlocal: add a few metrics for PeerAPI and LocalAPI

Mainly motivated by wanting to know how much Taildrop is used, but
also useful when tracking down how many invalid requests are
generated.

Signed-off-by: Mihai Parparita <mihai@tailscale.com>
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