tsnet: split user facing and backend logging

This adds a new `UserLogf` field to the `Server` struct.
When set this any logs generated by Server are logged using
`UserLogf` and all spammy backend logs are logged to `Logf`.

If it `UserLogf` is unset, we default to `log.Printf` and
if `Logf` is unset we discard all the spammy logs.

Fixes #12094

Signed-off-by: Maisem Ali <maisem@tailscale.com>
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