control/controlclient: start simplifying netmap fetch APIs

Step 1 of many, cleaning up the direct/auto client & restarting map
requests that leads to all the unnecessary map requests.

Updates tailscale/corp#5761

Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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