wgengine/magicsock: fix panic regression from cryptokey routing change

Fixes #13332
Updates tailscale/corp#20732

Change-Id: I30f12746844bf77f5a664bf8e8d8ebf2511a2b27
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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