cmd/tailscale: write fewer known_hosts, resolve ssh host to FQDN early

Updates #3802

Change-Id: Ic44fa2e6661a9c046e725c04fa6b8213d3d4d2b2
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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