derp/derpserver: increase minimum token bucket size

And cap WaitN calls to prevent token bucket errors. Frame length is
inclusive of DERP key for FrameSendPacket frames.

Updates tailscale/corp#40171

Signed-off-by: Jordan Whited <jordan@tailscale.com>
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