wgengine/magicsock: fix recently introduced data race

From 5c42990c2f, not yet released in a stable build.
Caught by existing tests.

Fixes #5685

Change-Id: Ia76bb328809d9644e8b96910767facf627830600
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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