net/ktimeout: add a package to set TCP user timeout

Setting a user timeout will be a more practical tuning knob for a number
of endpoints, this provides a way to set it.

Updates tailscale/corp#17587

Signed-off-by: James Tucker <james@tailscale.com>
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