ssh/tailssh: close sessions on policy change if no longer allowed

Updates #3802

Change-Id: I98503c2505b77ac9d0cc792614fcdb691761a70c
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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