tsnet: avoid deadlock on close

tsnet.Server.Close was calling listener.Close with the server mutex
held, but the listener close method tries to grab that mutex, resulting
in a deadlock.

Co-authored-by: David Crawshaw <crawshaw@tailscale.com>
Signed-off-by: Maisem Ali <maisem@tailscale.com>
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