net/tsdial: also plumb TUN name and monitor into tsdial.Dialer

In prep for moving stuff out of LocalBackend.

Change-Id: I9725aa9c3ebc7275f8c40e040b326483c0340127
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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