util/slicesx: add FirstElementEqual and LastElementEqual

And update a few callers as examples of motivation. (there are a
couple others, but these are the ones where it's prettier)

Updates #cleanup

Change-Id: Ic8c5cb7af0a59c6e790a599136b591ebe16d38eb
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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