ssh/tailssh: allow recorders to be configured on the first or final action

Currently we only send down recorders in first action, allow the final action
to replace them but not to drop them.

Updates tailscale/corp#9967

Signed-off-by: Maisem Ali <maisem@tailscale.com>
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