control/controlhttp: use custom port for non-localhost JS noise client connections

Control may not be bound to (just) localhost when sharing dev servers,
allow the Wasm client to connect to it in that case too.

Signed-off-by: Mihai Parparita <mihai@tailscale.com>
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