wgengine/magicsock: stop retaining *netmap.NetworkMap

We're trying to start using that monster type less and eventually get
rid of it.

Updates #1909

Change-Id: I8e1e725bce5324fb820a9be6c7952767863e6542
Signed-off-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@tailscale.com>
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